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Between the Lines: THE CARTER PARTY

作者:Jonathan Alter   来源:作者博客  已有 23970人浏览 字体放大  字体缩小

Jimmy Carter, almost 97, had risen from the red clay of remote Southwest Georgia to become President of the United States and a Nobel Prize-winning global icon and now he and his formidable wife Rosalynn, almost 94, were back in high school—their school, in tiny Plains, with Bill and Hillary Clinton (surprise guests), Nancy Pelosi, Andrew Young, Raphael Warnock, Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood, Ted Turner and 340 others from all walks of life—including me and my wife, Emily.

Mary Prince, the Carter family's close friend and caregiver for 50 years. As her parole officer when he was president, Carter got her released from a life sentence in prison for a murder she didn't commit. (Photo: Jonathan Alter)

Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter addressing their guests at their old high school.

I’ve been a guest at some cool parties in my time, but this one—on a Saturday afternoon at the old Plains High School (now a Carter museum), with most of the attendees well over 70—may have been the most memorable. The celebration of the Carters’ 75th wedding anniversary was enveloped in a kind of democratic cocoon, where major figures of history mingled happily with Carter’s fishing buddies and unassuming neighbors. (The event was private, though the press was let in briefly for a couple of toasts).

Guests arrive at the former Plains High School on Saturday afternoon to help Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter celebrate their 75th wedding anniversary. (Kevin Sullivan/The Washington Post)

In the auditorium where both Carters had spent many hours during the 1930s, we heard guests shout out requests to the pianist, David Osborne, a family favorite and Vegas headliner. Rosalynn, who looked surprisingly healthy, wanted “Imagine,” while the House Speaker, attending with her daughter, Alexandra Pelosi, requested “Midnight Train to Georgia.” President Clinton favored “I Can’t Stop Loving You.”

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Carter grandson Jason Carter leads Senator Raphael Warnock and House Speaker Nancy Pelosi on a tour of Jimmy Carter’s boyhood home on a farm. (Photo: Jill Stuckey)

The Carters were full partners in the White House and together, as Clinton once said, they have changed more lives around the world than any couple in world history.  They met nearly a century ago, a couple of days after Jimmy’s mother, “Miz Lillian,” a nurse, delivered Rosalynn, then brought her toddler over to see the new baby. Rosalynn was close friends with Jimmy’s younger sister, Ruth, and mooned over his picture in his navy uniform. They began dating in 1945 and married the following year, shortly after Jimmy graduated from the Naval Academy.

1946: Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter drive off on their wedding day. (Jimmy Carter Presidential Library)

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The celebration was surprisingly intimate, in part because we were at first separated into groups of about 40 people in each classroom, allowing real conversation. But it was also bittersweet—suffused with the knowledge that this might be the last time we saw not just the Carters but many of the others in attendance.

Luci Baines Johnson (left) and Amy Carter talking about being the daughters of presidents. (photo: Jonathan Alter)

I spent the better part of five years consumed with Carter, and now a good chunk of my book’s index was coming to life in one place, from once powerful White House aides like Rick HertzbergGerry RafshoonPhil WiseFrank MooreRex GranumLandon ButlerTerry AdamsonJim Free and Alicia Smith.

Even Sam Donaldson was back in the saddle, charging off in search of the story of how the former president almost didn’t make it to this day.

Kathy Cade, Rosalynn Carter's longtime senior aide, and Sam Donaldson, who covered the Carter White House for ABC News. (photo: Jonathan Alter)

Jonathan Alter, flanked by Steve Hochman and Jay Hakes, two of the many Carter associates present who helped him research His Very Best: Jimmy Carter, a Life

I had heard those rumors, too. As I later learned, Carter had fallen on the Fourth of July and hit his head on an arm rest. This was his third fall in two years—always a danger at his age—and he suffered a concussion that required hospitalization last week and 4 staples in his head. He had stabilized and recovered at least some of his speech by Friday but hadn’t been able to sleep before the big event, which he and Rosalynn have been anticipating for months. 


Given that, he was advised that he certainly didn’t need to go around to the classrooms and have his picture taken with each guest. But his instructions to his caregivers were as clear as his mind: he would do so, and he and Rosalynn shook every guest’s hand. The former naval officer was still totally in charge. When he felt the musical entertainment had gone on too long, he signaled it was time to end.

Chip Carter, the second of their three sons, noted in his toast that only six percent of all marriages last 50 years—and there are no statistics on how many marriages make it all the way to 75. Even Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip’s didn’t.

Chip Carter on his parents: "They taught us that we were better than no one and no one was better than us."

The guests seemed awed by the achievement. Normally, Bill Clinton reminds one of what was said about Theodore Roosevelt—that “he had to be the bride at every wedding and the corpse at every funeral.” But Clinton, whose sometimes hostile relationship with Carter I detail in my book, understood that it made sense to stand back and not speak. After all the recriminations, which flared again in 2017, he was showing that, as Harry Truman said, the best politicians never hold grudges.

Like Clinton, Pelosi wasn’t always a Carter supporter. She favored California Governor Jerry Brown for president in 1976 and came east to her hometown of Baltimore—where her family still wielded influence in local politics— to help Brown win the Maryland primary. (In 1980, she backed Ted Kennedy's challenge to Carter's renomination).  As the anniversary party wound down, Pelosi told me that Brown thought she did such a good job for him in Maryland that he paved the way for her to run for Congress. Now, she reveres Carter. My last image of her from this weekend was at the Maranatha Baptist Church, where she approached Carter in his wheelchair and grasped his face between her hands with a look that suggested to me that she thought this might be the last time she saw him.

Watch clips from the Carter Celebration

Garth Brooks, who had to leave early to make a 7 p.m. concert date in front of 65,000 fans in Las Vegas, also took pains not to overshadow the Carters, the same approach he and Yearwood have adopted when they’ve worked each year building houses with them for Habitat for Humanity. Now that Jimmy and Rosalynn are too old to hammer (as I did with them on a Habitat project in Memphis in 2016), they have asked Brooks and Yearwood to lead the way.

The Atlanta-based Carter Center, which has done so much for the world in recent years, is now in the capable hands of Jason Carter, Jimmy’s grandson, who ran unsuccessfully for governor of Georgia in 2014 and will likely be back in Georgia politics a few years from now. Jason told me that as bad as it is, the new Georgia voting law won't prevent Democrats from winning there in 2022. In fact, he thinks it will have no effect on already-high black turnout and will help drive more white suburban Democrats to the polls. 

The celebration left us wistful, appreciative and even a little exhilarated. As Jimmy Carter's underestimated presidency is finally being reassessed, the Carters defy the idea that you can't go home again. In this humble place, they raised a family then scaled heights--in politics, human rights and healing-- neither could have ever imagined, before returning to live out their lives where the journey of purpose had all begun. And they've done so with a core decency now transforming them from mere political figures into beloved Americans and inspirations to future generations. 

发布时间:2021年07月19日 来源时间:2021年07月19日

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